Already Worthy Program

Have you spent most of your life chasing a moving target of ‘enough’?

Do you tend to feel that your worthiness is always right on the horizon, just out of reach?

Maybe you catch yourself thinking things like…

“If I could just get that promotion, then I’d feel whole.”

“If I could just find the right relationship, then I’d be happy.”

“If I could just lose that weight, then I’d love myself.”

“If I could just check all those to-do’s off my list, then I’d feel content.”

“If I could just get that new car/house/outfit/gadget, then I’d feel satisfied.”

“If I could just fix that flaw or break that habit, then I’d be lovable.”

“If I could just be a better person/parent/partner/friend, then I’d be worthy.”

We tell ourselves these stories of conditional worthiness all the time—that simply being as we are is not enough, and that changing something about ourselves or our lives will make us enough.

We believe that our worthiness is something to be earned. That in order to be enough, we must do more. Be better. Strive harder. Give more. Hustle. Push. Achieve. Prove.

This treadmill toward ‘enoughness’ can be quite addictive. There’s a sense of motivation and drive: a hopeful future we’re determined to reach. It’s shiny and compelling. 

But it’s also deeply exhausting and discouraging. 

No matter how hard we push, we never seem to reach that feeling of being enough.

Because it was never about that promotion or that relationship or losing that weight—not really. If it was about all those things, we would probably already be enjoying the feelings of satisfaction and worthiness we set out for!

Here’s the reality:

Looking for ‘enoughness’ outside of ourselves is often alluring, but it rarely leads to genuine satisfaction or lasting self-worth. 

In fact, it typically leads to chronic low-level feelings of unworthiness, and a whole lot of stress and anxiety.

The truth is, our worthiness is intrinsic and unconditional. It can’t be earned or lost; it simply is. We are all already enough.

So why do we torture ourselves like this? Why do we keep chasing this mirage of external worthiness?

Well, for starters…

Cultivating internal worthiness is rarely modeled or taught in our society.

Very few of us came up in cultural context or social environment that affirmed us exactly as we were, and helped us separate our abilities and achievements from our personal value.

Most of us were trained from a young age to measure our worth based our productivity, achievements, social status, and/or image. We all internalized messaging about what would make us successful, “worthy” adults, and very little of this revolved around having a compassionate, loving relationship with ourselves.

The paradigm of proving our ‘enoughness’ has become so mainstream that many of us never even attempt to counter it.

Yet so many of us are suffering as a result—overworking ourselves as we strive for unrealistic standards that ultimately leave us feeling empty as soon as we attain them.

Here’s the good news:

Seeking our worthiness externally is an old habit we can heal, and growing our worthiness internally is a new skill we can develop.

The Already Worthy Program is a powerful journey designed to help you do exactly that.